m sure easier than sharing parental responsibility at times. I don't have a partner with different opinions, different triggers and different beliefs about how we should parent. And, I don't have to agree what I
ll focus on. I make those decisions and then in theory stick to them!
Not on the same page
One of the sticking points I see so often when working with couples is that they aren't on the same page when it comes to parenting. This is totally understandable. Our own upbringing and believe system has a huge impact on how we parent. Unless you sit down and talk to your other half to agree your approach you are likely to be on different pages, at least a bit.
. From there we can start to bring both parents onto the same page and decide agree a way forward. This helps everyone and can reduce tensions between parents.
As we bring their approaches together we are able to provide their child with a more consistent approach. Being beneficial for the child, and ultimately the whole family.
Prioritising the challenges
We also use the baskets approach to help them agree their priorities. (You can read about how to do this here) Once we have those agreed it becomes much easier for both parents. They know what they are focusing on and can support each other in ignoring other behaviours.
Changing your approach as a parent isn't easy. It's often deeply ingrained in us and takes time to change. When we are able to adjust and agree a way forward together as a couple it can have a huge impact on the whole family.
Support
If you're ready for change and would like some help then I offer individual family support and group support, depending on what you
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